Before you even consider getting yourself into a relationship there are two things that are absolutely critical: 1) be sure of what you want, and 2) be even more sure of what you don’t want. Let’s be honest. Most women, men, too, for that matter, have no idea what they want, but if you ask any one of them what they don’t want they’ll read you off a list that’s a mile long. “I don’t want a man that’s unemployed,” “I don’t want a man who is clingy,” and “I don’t want a man that lives with his parents!” It’s very easy to determine what you don’t want to deal with, but when you’re talking about a relationship… and if you’re one of those girls looking for the relationship to be all and end all, then, maybe it’s more important to look at what you actually DO want. If you want to know about my list, and I’m sure you do if you’re still reading this, I’ll tell you a little bit about it. It’s broken out into two categories: Must Haves and Nice-To-Haves. My musts? Must have ambition, must h...